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When Memories Mean the Most...

8/18/2019

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LUMIX G9 with LUMIX 14-140mm lens - f6.3 @ 1/320 ISO 200 40mm
PictureCindy and Bob in Sweden in '98

​I'm back in Florida, and it's a typical Sunday morning. I'm up early and Sheila's still asleep, and I'm in a strange mood trying to find the words to express a particular kind of sadness. Remember, "Sunday Morning Reflections" are always off the topic of photography, and this morning I'm a long way away from marketing and business.

Friday night the phone rang and a good buddy was calling me to tell me his wife had passed away that morning. I started to tear up, but did my best to try and console him. I hung up the phone and cried, not just for the loss of a great lady, but for the pain he's going through and I'm too far away to do very much.

I hate when people post things that are personal, but this is "Reflections." So, I'm going into forbidden territory, but I'll keep it brief.

I met Bob Thompson when I joined Hasselblad in 1987. Our friendship has been one adventure after another, and his wife Cindy supported all of it. We used to laugh every time we did a scuba trip, because Cindy wouldn't let him go until he cleaned his office! She wasn't big on traveling but the two photographs I found of them were on a trip to Sweden in 1998.

PictureOff the plane in Kalmar, Sweden
The Hasselblad sales force won a trip to Sweden, with spouses, and it was a kick to have Cindy and all the spouses with us. Years later we're still laughing about some of the things that happened on that trip, but that's not my point so much this morning.

Our friendships are the mortar that keeps the bricks of our lives together. From scuba-diving to snowmobiling to working trade shows, meetings, and sharing a love for imaging, Bob and I have been through a lot of great times together. We've spent hours talking about our lives outside the industry and shared mutual losses of good friends and associates, but losing Cindy was never something I anticipated and I'm simply at a loss.

I know she's going to be watching over him along with a circle of good friends. A few years ago, while they were still living in Denver, Sheila and I got out to dinner with them. It was non-stop laughs for the evening and those memories are something we'll always cherish.

So, for my good buddy this morning, I have to use a quote from the Internet:

"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal. "
There's no better caption for the photographs in this post today, than Jodi Picoult's quote I've used so often:

                                                         "This what I like about photographs.
                            They're proof that once, even if just for a heartbeat, everything was perfect."

Wishing everybody a day filled with the people most important in your life and time to appreciate them. Those eleven-second hugs are always important, but this morning when Sheila wakes up I'm going bump them up to longer. Life is just too short!

Happy Sunday everybody.
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Bob Thompson
8/18/2019 09:38:29 am

Skip, thanks so much for this tribute to Cindy. I cannot begin to tell you how much you have meant to Cindy and I over the years.
Bob

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Gareth link
8/18/2019 10:00:06 am

Beautiful Skip. It’s posts like this that reminds us of our humanity, of what gives us the meaning in our lives. It also serves to remind us to pick up the phone and call someone who has touched our life, just to let them know the are loved. Thanks Skip.

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Kevin Gilligan link
8/18/2019 11:48:59 am

Skip, Thank you for being strong enough to post and share difficult moments. My condolences to you and your friend Bob.

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jan bergin
8/18/2019 06:33:29 pm

Cindy is my beloved sister--she was my only remaining sibling and my heart is literally broken---broken hearts are real

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Donna K.W.Wroblewski
8/19/2019 03:27:48 pm

Bob my heart and prayers go out to you at this time, the loss of a spouse is the heaviest pain to feel sending my love from Nebraska

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Alan Hazlett
8/24/2019 08:55:24 pm

My deepest sympathies on the loss of your wife. I can only hope that you take some comfort in the good times you had together..

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