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A Moment For Reflection

10/4/2017

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For two days I've been trying to find the words I want to share in this post. I'm rarely at a loss for expressing myself, but the events in the world since mid-August have, on a daily basis left me speechless. I know life goes on, but if we were all at a convention and sitting in a kick-off keynote address, the speaker would start with a few minutes of silence, whether in prayer or just poignant thought, out of respect for the suffering and pain we've all witnessed.

For me, it started with "Harvey" and worrying about friends in Texas. There were more senseless terror attacks, this time in Spain. Two weeks later "Irma" reared her ugly head literally on our doorstep. I watched the news as lives and homes were lost in the Caribbean, then Key West then Florida and continuing north. "Maria," followed much of the same path as "Irma" and Puerto Rico was crushed. Finally, the earthquake in Mexico reminded me that Mother Nature wasn't finished.

But I wasn't done being speechless. The last few nights, like most of you, I watched the latest update on the mass shooting in Las Vegas. It's a city nearly all of us in the industry have spent enough time in to probably declare ourselves residents. But the pain we're all feeling isn't about Vegas; it's about the human spirit. A senseless mass shooting at a concert that could have been anywhere.

Today, regardless of what any of us do for a living, it's business as usual, except...

There's a unique sadness I feel. I find myself wondering what I would have done had Sheila and I been at that concert. I think about how we would have felt to come back to our home after "Irma" and find everything gone. I find myself trying to imagine the panic if the earth around our home simply opened up and swallowed us whole!

I'll post today like I do every day with some great content thanks to the SCU partners. I'll share links to social media to various companies and products I believe in, but there's a huge difference from other days. I can't start off today without reminding you how lucky we all are. While I'll be accused of an inappropriate topic for a business and marketing blog, a big piece of my heart belongs to so many people who in just six weeks have seen their lives and dreams changed, some forever.

Tragedies happen all over the world, and each day somewhere there's somebody in pain, but I don't remember a time in my life when we've witnessed so many at once and felt so helpless. While the world is in turmoil, maybe it's time we each took a deep breath and a moment of reflection. Regardless of your religious affiliation, it's time to say a prayer and thank God for everything we have and to help so many people in so much pain.
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Dan Robinson
10/4/2017 09:19:31 am

Well said Skip. It seems a deep sadness has come upon us. What each of us do to help others may be the only real way to respond.

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Matt Messerli link
10/4/2017 11:27:09 am

As time goes on we realize there is only one life, rather than a personal and professional one. That one life comes at you fast and it is impossible to differentiate your feelings from aspects that don't want to be impacted, but it's inevitable. Thank you for sharing your insight and vulnerability regardless of the business implications; vulnerability makes us all more human. Only through this kind of emotional reality can we connect with others and stifle future hardships before they occur.

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Patricia J Tahan
10/4/2017 12:12:27 pm

I feel the same helplessness. You are not alone.

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Joyce link
10/4/2017 01:33:20 pm

Thanks for sharing. Things happening in this world are definitely heartbreaking. Your words express how so many feel, hopefully, it inspires everyone to be thankful for blessings.

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Donna Keidel link
10/4/2017 02:27:02 pm

The lack of compassion for our fellow man is at the root of all of this... Kindness is the only answer.

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Wendy link
10/5/2017 10:13:28 am

My Perspective:
I like everyone else, am devastated by not only the recent heinous massacre in Las Vegas, but in the state of our country and the division that is taking place.
I watch the news and see the photos and video of what happened and get so depressed and angry but like a moth to a flame, I just can’t stay away. I run the gamut of emotions from fear and terror to warmth and love for the people that gave their lives to save others and first responders that put their lives in immediate danger to protect others. I go from I want to go help, to I never want to go to an event that has a large gathering of people ever again.
I keep asking how and why and looking for answers that we may never know.
I wanted to show the world that I care and that I pray for them and I want to help, but everything that I can think to do just falls short of actually making a difference. I kept wondering how we could show solidarity, how we as a nation and Americans could stand together, put aside our differences. Could we have a moment of silence, could we drive with our lights on, could we leave our porch lights on, and so many other things that while would show support, are just a mere moment in time and what actual effect would it have on changing the world for the better.
Then I thought what I, as one individual could do that would make a difference. You hear pay it forward and while it is nice to get a free coffee and for a moment or a day it makes you feel good and you get warm fuzzies that there are still wonderful, kind people that care about others, but what about the next day?
Alternatively, what if what we were paying forward was not a free coffee but kindness……
What if you made an effort to be kind, to smile to greet others?
What about holding the door open or offering your seat to a stranger?
I know this one is hard, but what about letting that car in front of you that waited too long to merge?
What about acknowledging the person that let you in front of them or held that door open?
While many of these things seem so small and just common sense, what if we all did them?
What if you did these things for everyone regardless of race, political affiliation, wealth or gender and so many other things that are trying to tear our country apart?
What about if we looked for the positive in situations rather than automatically assuming the worst?
What if you agree to disagree but still respect and love those that have differing opinions?
I truly believe that we can make a difference if we all choose to be kind and accepting. None of us are perfect and we will all make mistakes, but please everyone show peace, love and unity by choosing to be kind.
You choose how you can be kind, because together we can make a difference.
Thank you for taking the time to read and if you feel as strongly as I do about wanting to make a difference and help make our country a better place, please share my post but more importantly…….Be Kind.
Wendy Stubbs

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Paul Mango
10/5/2017 08:31:52 pm

Well said Skip 🙏🏼

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