by Skip Cohen
I started this series with one goal: to give you more ideas to help build a stronger business and break through all the noise to reach your target audience better. Each week, I've presented another idea to help you become a better business owner. Today's post is a little different because it starts with your own family. It plays on your abilities as an artist more than developing your business/operational skills. Let's start with a big mistake I made in the past. (I'd rather you learn from my mistakes and then take the time to make your own new ones!) Here's the backstory: My Dad passed away ten years ago, and my Mom two years before that. My grandparents died many years earlier. At this point in my life, there's nobody left who knows any of our family history. I have many stories over the years, but I don't have a video collection of my folks talking about their lives, both as a couple and individually. I wish I had those stories from my grandparents, too. Ancestry.com can trace my roots, but that's not what I want. I want video coverage of me sitting with my folks and talking about our family and their lives. I want all the stories! We're coming into Spring seasonality with Easter, Passover, Mother's Day, Father's Day, and graduations. That means most of you are going to be with older family members. Even without any formal video training, everyone has the gear and the skills to start documenting their family history. You've got the ability to create family videos with whatever level of sophistication you want. It's also a prime component of a Legacy Program you could eventually offer your clients if you don't already. This has so much potential to fine-tune your skills at capturing memories, starting with your own family. Don't wait until everybody is gone to say, "I should have taken the time!" A year or two before my Dad passed away, Bambi Cantrell spent some time doing a short video of Dad taking a look back. It's a great service/product idea to pitch your clients as something new for this season. Take advantage of all the family time coming up. This is especially important If you've got grandparents or great-grandparents alive. Make it a point to get time with them and capture those stories. Ask them questions about their childhood and growing up. Have fun with questions about the kind of kids they were, things they did in school, specific friends, pets, and places they visited. The list of information it would be fun to have and share is virtually unlimited. And don't forget those old photographs in that shoebox in the closet. Don't make the same mistake I did - Take the time to become your family's historian. You never want to be looking back and wishing you'd captured/created a video about your roots!
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The Western Interstate Commission for Higher Education (WICHE) projects the number of high school graduates to peak between 3.8 million and 3.9 million in 2025. This will be the largest graduating class in recent history. (Courtesy of Google) ![]() by Skip Cohen We're approaching that special time of year when seasonality kicks in for so many different specialties, especially seniors. Senior photography continues to be one of the fastest-growing specialties in imaging. Unlike when I was a senior (on the right), today, it's all about capturing the subject's personality. It's about the interaction between the senior and the professional photographer. If you've got an interest in the senior market, you first need to ensure you've got the skill set, not just with your camera. You need great communication skills and the ability to build a relationship with your subject. For many seniors, this may be their first time working with a professional photographer. They're as nervous about getting a portrait done as they are in dealing with some of their own self-esteem issues. That means your listening and conversational skills must be as good as your understanding of exposure, composition, and lighting! Unlike when I was a senior (this is where my good buddy Scott Bourne would take a shot at me and suggest that Matthew Brady and I went to school together! LOL), there are so many different products available to enhance the relationship, starting with Graduation Cards. This is your chance to help the 2025 grads celebrate with a great-looking Grad Card that contributes to the graduation announcement. Marathon Press has so much to choose from, with a special offer on gold foil enhancements available now through the end of May.
Just for a minute, think about what the class of 2025 has experienced. They were in eighth grade when the pandemic hit. They've had to deal with so many horrible challenges, including worrying about school shootings, of which, according to CNN, there have been over 180 over the last ten years. Then, add in the challenges with Mother Nature, the economy, and politics, and their role in the world going forward becomes even more special. These kids represent such a huge role in our future, and they've certainly earned the right to celebrate! Grad cards represent one of the best tools you have to help families celebrate and appreciate the images you captured over the last year. Think back to the pride you had in the quality of the senior portraits you captured. Now it's time to put them to the very best use and create more ways to share the memories! I only preserve traditions that bring joy, not traditions that keep people from it. Author Unknown ![]() by Skip Cohen It's Sunday, and as usual, I'm about to jump the tracks from topics like marketing and business. But unlike most Sundays, I woke up today knowing exactly what I wanted to write about - tradition and friendship. While I know I've shared the story in the past, it's too much fun not to share again. Tomorrow is St. Patrick's Day, and with it comes a tradition that kicked into gear over five decades ago! It was our freshman year at Miami University, and my good buddy, Rich, and I started drinking green beer at the Purity Bar at 7:00 am. Rich had this giant Viking-style pewter tankard we took to the bar. In a college town like Oxford, Ohio, there wasn't a whole to do, so we weren't alone celebrating. When a couple got up to dance, we'd grab part of their beer and fill the tankard. By 11:00 am, friends from the dorm came to the bar and literally carried us back to our rooms. By midday, the two of us were "driving the porcelain bus." We were both sick as dogs. It was the first time being drunk for both of us. I'm not condoning the stupidity of what we did, but looking back, it created a tradition I cherish. And here's where that tradition comes into play. All these years, we still battle it out over who's the first to call the other on St. Patrick's Day. Every call is the same: we laugh about what we did, marvel over the abilities of our youth, and stay connected. While we still talk to each other every couple of months, St. Patrick's Day and the laughs we share border on being epic. Like the quote above, our connection is about the tradition of joy and a friendship that's stayed intact regardless of where we both lived. A best friend is a treasure chest of memories and laughter. Unknown A friend is one who overlooks your broken fence and admires the flowers in your garden. Unknown These are two quotes that say everything I want to share about great friendships, especially my good buddy, Rich. We've only seen each other a handful of times over all these years, but that's never changed the friendship, the laughs, or the joy.
Wishing everybody a day ahead with time to enjoy your own traditions with great friends. You can never go back, and you can't live in the past, but a walk down Memory Lane with a good pal is meant to be savored. Sometimes, especially today in a world that's gone upside down, a great memory becomes a point to cherish and much-needed stability. Don't forget to make a few new memories with those people most special to you. Today's special moments will become tomorrow's most loved trips back in time. Happy Sunday or Monday if you're on the other side of the world. And to Rich - I'm determined to make it two years in a row when I beat you to the punch! Talk to you in the morning...early!!! by Skip Cohen For six years, starting with the earliest issues, I wrote for Shutter Magazine. Authors were required to include a short video summary with each article for online promotion. It was approximately ten years ago we captured the two-minute video below. The fun of these videos was all in the challenge of getting people to remember what my point was. I knew if I could do something stupid in the video, readers might remember my point. We're coming up with the start of spring seasonality in imaging, and relationship-building is more important than ever before. You need to OWN YOUR ZIPCODE. Every business in your community needs to know who you are and the support you can provide. And it doesn't matter what your specialty is - even as a wedding photographer being introduced to a real estate office; you have the ability to help them with all of their imaging needs with your skillset, network, and knowledge about photography/video. We're one week away from the first day of Spring—it's time for you to come out of hibernation and start pounding the pavement. You've got to be your own noisemaker, and combining personal face-to-face introductions with email blasts, direct mail, and partnerships is an unstoppable way to build top-of-mind awareness. So, when people in your community think about needing help with photography who comes to mind first? Old enough to remember the old ban deodorant commercial? The tagline was, "You never get a second chance to make a first expression. Never let them see you sweat!" Throughout the year I do a lot of website reviews, and so many of you are missing an opportunity to make a solid first expression. A visit to your website needs to be a great experience. Just like shopping at Macy's vs. Nordstroms - you've got a choice to make in the experience you give visitors to your website! Is Your Website Exciting or Would it Put a Rock to Sleep!Here are some ideas: easy fixes and things you can do NOW before business hits Spring seasonality.
While somebody will challenge me on this, you can't be in business today without a website. I also still feel a blog is important. Why? Your site is about what you sell, and your blog is about what's in your heart. Both work together, much like advertising and publicity. Together, a great website and blog can open doors, build trust, and help establish your reputation as a professional photographer. But just like discussions on Facebook forums now and then about what photographers wear when shooting a wedding, you've got to dress the part. You've got to dress for success! These days, your website is the equivalent of a brick-and-mortar store - make a visit, starting with your audience walking through the front door, that's memorable and a fun place to "shop." All the flowers of all the tomorrows are in the seeds of today. Chinese Proverb by Skip Cohen It's Sunday, the one day that I completely deviate from business and marketing. It's my time to write about something other than the challenges we face along our career path every day. This morning, my thoughts are focused on great quotes. While there are moments when I hate social media and miss the simplicity of the life I grew up with, the Internet has made the world a much smaller place. It gives us an opportunity to harvest old and new ideas to help expand our thoughts on virtually any topic that pops into our heads. It's given us access to everyone from Confucius to SNL's Jack Handy, and the quote I grabbed this morning is a perfect example. I read the above quote and loved how it took one of my grandmother's sayings and gave it a touch of class. One of her favorites was, "You reap what you sow." But the Chinese took it a step further and gave it a far more supportive and positive spin. At the risk of actually sounding like Jack Handy, we're all gardeners with the ability to plant whatever seeds we want. And done right, the things we do now to secure "flowers" in the future are the definition of planning, hope, and fulfilling our dreams—plant no seeds today, and nothing will grow tomorrow. Here's my point: Find a website with quotes about whatever interests you the most. Pick any challenge you're dealing with right now, and Google will open the doors to the arsenal of diverse thoughts on the topic from all over the world. Then, appreciate the way technology has expanded our lives with so much information at our fingertips. But be careful in what quotes you share: Don't believe everything you read on the Internet. Abraham Lincoln Wishing everybody a day ahead that's loaded with the potential to plant whatever seeds of ideas you're hoping to grow for tomorrow. Like planting real flowers, not everything you plant will always grow, but if you don't plant anything, you're trying to grow in an emotional desert. I always write about those eleven-second therapeutic hugs with the people you're closest to. Those hugs are the equivalent of watering and fertilizing some of those "flowers" you're hoping to grow.
Like I said, I'm sounding like Jack Handy this morning. Happy Sunday...or Monday on the other side of the world. I am not a product of my circumstances. I am a product of my decisions. Stephen Covey ![]() by Skip Cohen A few weeks back, I started sharing a quote each week from what's become one of my favorite motivational books, One Day At a Time by Lou Mitchell. Reading something inspirational first thing in the morning gets the gears in my brain moving in the right direction. The quote above was for today, March 7, and Mitchell went on to write: Life often throws unexpected challenges our way, but it's our decisions that define us. Stephen Covey's words remind us that we hold the power to shape our own destiny. Rather than being passive victims of circumstance, we can choose how we respond to life's events. And there it is, my whole point to wrap up the week. It's the decisions we make that lead us closer to our goals or push us farther away. Here's a great example from a few years back during the pandemic: JP Elario is a remarkable photographer. When the pandemic hit, everybody was a victim of how it changed our lives, especially if you were a business owner and photographer. Well, JP looked at the challenge and created Facetime Portraits. He worked with his bridal clients, and captured stunning engagement portraits using Facetime, combined with his understanding of lighting, posing and composition. When most photographers were desperately looking for ways to save their business, JP built a new income stream for engagement photography. His story was later picked up by the 6:00 PM news in Albany, which added to his brand awareness. Facetime Portraits didn't completely replace the lost revenue from photographing weddings, but it did create a new income stream. At a time when other artists were acting like a deer in your headlights, JP didn't let the panic of the pandemic slow him down. I grabbed a few of JP's images below to make my point. Too often, we're victims of our own decisions, NOT the unexpected circumstances that arrived on our doorstep. Wishing everybody a weekend ahead loaded with great decisions and time to reflect on all the things you can do to move closer to your goals. Happy Friday! "Innovation distinguishes between a leader and a follower." Steve Jobs Images above copyright JP Elario. All rights reserved.
This is what I like about photographs. They're proof that once, even if just for a heartbeat, everything was perfect. Jodie Picoult ![]() by Skip Cohen When you've been doing Throwback Thursday long enough, past throwbacks deserve to be shared again. I shared this in 2017, but it goes back to my last WPPI as prez. Two weeks later, after a serious disagreement with WPPI's owner, I resigned and headed off on my own. The Awards Reception is held on the last night of the WPPI convention. It's an evening jam-packed with recognition, primarily for artists who have entered WPPI's print competition. The image above shows most of the WPPI team in 2009, who, along with 150 or so incredible volunteers, made the convention happen that year at the MGM Grand. We had an estimated 15,000 attendees and a star-studded lineup of programs and entertainment, including Blues Traveler, sponsored by Nikon in MGM's Garden Arena. Jerry Ghionis, jumping in on the right, while not working directly for WPPI, was pretty much an ambassador and photo-bombed the shot—helping to set the trend long before its time. A lot of people give me credit for building the show, but it was never just me. This was the A-team that became a family. However, two people are missing in the group shot above: Marlene Gourlay, who always refused to attend the last night's reception, and Gennie Kiuchi, who stayed in Culver City to keep the office going during the convention. If you haven't gone off searching for a "Throwback Thursday" image for today, what's holding you back? While I always remind you to share throwback images on your blog to remind clients of the important role photography plays in their lives, it's also a fun personal experience. I've got the biggest smile on my face right now, as this group shot brings back a whole lot of wonderful memories. Happy Throwback Thursday! by Skip Cohen
With WPPI coming up, here's a list of tips to ensure you get the most bang for your buck—and they work for ANY conference or convention! It's hard to get away, even at this time of year. But when you do, especially for a convention or conference, you want to get the most out of it. In scuba diving, there's an expression, "Plan your dive—dive your plan!" You've got limited air and limited time, and it's always important to have a buddy. Well, a convention is no different. You've got to plan your trip, make the most of every minute at the event, and come home with ideas to improve your skillset and build a stronger business.
The one thing I find most frustrating with attendees at a big convention like WPPI is they just haven't planned their trip. They got their tickets and made it to Vegas, but then everything fell apart. Plan your WPPI experience, so you're not wasting time and, even more importantly, your money. Nothing beats the experience of a great trade show and convention, but it's up to you to get the most out of it. And speaking of getting the MOST out of things - this is the sixth installment in Business Breakthroughs. So far I've covered everything from breaking out of your procrastination mode to new clients, building your brand, paying attention to your demographics and even content ideas for your blog or social media. The links to each post are below - just click on any banner! Taking time to do nothing often brings everything into perspective. Doe Zantamata by Skip Cohen It's Sunday morning, and as I said to Sheila, "I have no idea what to write about," it dawned on me that having nothing to write about was the perfect topic. Like any small business owner, there are times when I simply have no agenda and nothing in particular I need to do. As I got older, being busy every waking minute became a badge of accomplishment. I remember talking with one of my favorite people in the industry, Julieanne Kost at Adobe, who, when asked once to be involved in a new project, simply said, "I'm sorry, but I'm out of bandwidth." Today's one of those days when I've got a lot on my mind, but nothing requires any deeper, more complex thoughts than bacon or sausage with breakfast! In fact, Sheila and I are going to go out for breakfast and then hit the nursery to check out plants for the butterfly garden. Just the anticipation of a relaxing, do-nothing day is clearing my head and setting the stage for projects I want to accomplish in the week ahead. It's March 2 already, and Spring is in the air. It's the perfect time to kick back and chill. I'm not wasting time; I'm using it to recharge my battery and do a little light planning for what I want to accomplish next. Take time to do what makes your soul happy. Unknown Self-care means giving yourself permission to pause. Cecilia Tran I've written a lot over the years about recognizing burnout BEFORE it knocks on your door. One way to ensure Burnout loses your address is to take breaks that combine doing nothing and savoring time with the people you love the most. It sounds so simple, yet it's one of the most missed activities we allow ourselves to enjoy - doing nothing!
Wishing everybody a day ahead that allows you to appreciate having an "empty plate." Take the time to relax and appreciate the hard work you've done to learn to step away from the stress of business...and life. Enjoy the silence, even if it's just in your head. Take the time to smell the roses! Don't forget those eleven-second hugs with the people most important to you that I always write about. Remember to give yourself a hug, along with a big pat on the back for everything you're working to accomplish. Happy Sunday...or Monday on the other side of the world. You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream. C.S. Lewis by Skip Cohen
I try and keep it light on Fridays, although I don't often succeed. But I am going to keep it short. I found the quote above in a book by Lou Mitchell, who went on to write: Reflect on your own life. Is there a dream you've put off because you thought it was too late? What can you do today to get back on track or set a new goal that excites you? Consider the experiences and knowledge you've gained over the years, and use them as a foundation to build new paths. All of us had dreams when we were kids. Many of them disappeared as we got older and the quest for achieving them became buried under the stress of what we chose to accept as reality. But the truth is, dreams don't go away. They fade and then get moved to a back burner. And there's my point - you're never too old to chase another goal or fulfill a dream. The key is not to let time get in the way. Whether there's something you've always wanted to do, a place you always wanted to go, or simply a skill you wish you'd learn, there's time...but you're the only one who can decide the direction of your next adventure. Wishing everybody a weekend ahead with time to chase your dreams and start a new adventure. Nothing is outside your reach. ![]() Photographs bring back memories. Memories are like that great bottle of cabernet you're saving—they just get better with age. Throwback Thursday is all about stepping into the time-machine and reviving old memories! It was December 1987, and Mikhail Gorbachev had just visited the White House for a meeting with President Reagan. Senator Howard Baker was Chief of Staff and a Hasselblad shooter, and I had become president of Hasselblad USA almost six months earlier. I learned that Senator Baker bought his camera gear from Penn Camera, also a Hasselblad dealer. So, I asked our D.C. salesman to let me know the next time the Senator was scheduled to stop by the store, and we'd take him to lunch. But when the Senator was contacted, instead of letting us take him to lunch, he invited us to his "house"...the White House! The memories of hanging out with Howard Baker feel like they happened yesterday. He was a remarkable man and simply loved photography. I couldn't have been more proud to have been sitting in his office and talking about his career, his love for America, and, in turn, imaging. I remember him saying, "Skip, I've been Chief of Staff for only a short time, and I was a Senator for almost thirty years...and this job feels longer!" As we left the White House, the microphones for part of the Gorbachev visit were still in place. I couldn't resist stepping behind them and looking like I was speaking at a press conference. Today's post isn't about the pain and disgust I'm feeling about politics these days. Every day, I'm more astonished by what's happening in America. I was invited to the White House twice in my career and so proud to have been there each time. Sadly, that would not be the case today. by Skip Cohen It's Marketing Monday and we're past the halfway point of the slow season. It's the perfect time to share ideas on expanding your target audience and finding new opportunities for the year ahead. Business Breakthroughs, is a series to help make your message as a small business owner and artist stand out. I want to help you breakthrough and crush the chaos that gets in the way of the messages you send to your target audience. There are too many of you who thought just by opening your business and hanging a sign; customers would flock to your door. Well, it doesn't work that way. Think about how much noise is in our lives. You've got to find ways to get through that noise and utilize your very best marketing tool - relationship building. If opportunity doesn't knock, build a door! Milton Berle ![]() Whether you've recently just started or you're a seasoned pro trying to jump-start an established business, you've got to look for new opportunities. No matter what line of work you're in, every business has the same challenge: finding customers and keeping them. You've got to find that sweet spot that makes you different from what everybody else is doing. Own your zip code: When was the last time you got out and literally knocked on doors to introduce yourself to every business in the community? When I was a kid, I remember moving to a new neighborhood. A woman from "Welcome Wagon" came by the house to introduce us to the community's vendors. She left a basket of goodies, coupons, and information. You need to do the same thing, with or without a goodie basket. Plus, we're coming into Spring seasonality with Mother's Day, proms, graduations, and Father's Day. This is the perfect time of year to meet every business owner in your community. You don't have to sell them anything; just wish them a terrific upcoming Spring! Remind them you're a photographer and artist and there to help with any imaging needs they may have. All of your past clients: Everybody is so busy looking for new clients that they forget about building relationships with their existing base. These are people who already know you and have other photographic needs or friends who do, but you've got to stay in touch. Holiday and birthday cards, emails, phone calls, and even a personal visit here and there are all perfect ways to keep in touch. Remember, a great business is built on a foundation of relationship building! Buy a List: These days, you can buy a list based on virtually anything and sort it right down to specific zip codes and even email addresses. For example, parents who send their kids to summer camp are a great target for family photographers. If you're a maternity/newborn photographer, the target audience is obvious - new parents. And don't forget the older crowd - what does grandma miss the most? Her grandchildren and it's a common complaint that they want more photographs. It's the perfect gift idea to plant the seed for a new family portrait. Partnerships: I've written so much about not flying solo! Other businesses, including photographers, are the perfect partners to create excitement in the community. New alliances can be just what you need to "build some new doors." It can be as simple as sharing the cost of a mailing to actual cross-promotions of each other's products/services. Again, Spring is almost here, and you're going to be meeting so many different people at community events as everyone comes out of "hibernation." Think about those people you meet who might be terrific partners in the future. Social Media: Each day, you have an opportunity many of you miss to expand your presence on social media. For photographers, those new doors are through a well-done blog, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and whatever new platforms are opening to reach new potential clients. Don't forget LinkedIn, which has a growing community and an interest in imaging. However, you've got to pay attention to your presentation, the quality of your images, and being helpful in what you're sharing. Pet Photography: In the hierarchy of why people hire a photographer in the portrait/social categories, the top three reasons are brides, babies, and pets. It's also the perfect specialty to open a whole new category of other businesses to partner with, like vets, groomers, daycare centers, boarding, dog parks, etc. Teach a Class: Most of you are qualified to teach at least an introductory imaging class. Help your target audience become better artists, regardless of what they use to photograph. Lighting, composition, posing, etc., are all skills you use every day. Now is the time to get the word out in your community for a "clean up" campaign. Have some fun with the concept, and clean up all the bad photographs! Community Involvement: There's no such thing as being too involved in your community. Now is the time to build new relationships and grow brand awareness for your expertise as an artist. And your involvement doesn't have to include a camera in your hands - even helping in the refreshment stand at a high school basketball game will increase your exposure to members of the community. Host an Open House: Again, it's a topic I've written a lot about in the past. You don't have to have a studio to host an event like this. Find a place with the space you need, bring in a partner or two, and then host an event to celebrate Spring. Working with partners, you have other databases to draw from as well. And don't forget to make sure the various community influencers are invited. Check out this past post featuring an open house Chamira Young did many years ago when she first moved to a new area. You know how to focus your camera, but what about your business? Opportunities are everywhere, but you're the one who has to can find them! Love the life you live. Live the life you love. Bob Marley by Skip Cohen Sunday Morning Reflections started years ago as a series of posts in which, once a week, with your help, I run amuck on the regular topics of business and marketing. It's my time to share something that's hopefully relevant to you, my readers. Bob Marley's quote above might seem incredibly trite, but it carries with it a reminder that life isn't a dress rehearsal, but time to let your heart soar. And if your heart just isn't in the game, you can't live the kind of life you want. Here's a great example, and it pushes the envelope of getting personal about my life, things the "experts" say you shouldn't post about: It's no secret that I'm estranged from my family. There's virtually no contact - and while the reasons aren't important here, the foundation is all seated in horrible communication. And while I have regrets, years ago I had to make a choice - live my best life or spend all my time being a right-fighter. Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else. You are the one who gets burned. Buddha At some point, thanks to Sheila, some incredible friends, a little therapy, and two pups, I realized that playing the role of the last angry man was accomplishing nothing except holding me back from living a life I loved. They say that with age comes wisdom. But wisdom is the result of all our experiences, and being angry all the time is one of the repetitious acts that accomplishes nothing.
I learned to let it all go—not that I still don't have a short fuse on certain topics, but being happy is a life choice. I'm still a work in progress, but life is simply too short. As you age, your ability to focus on what's truly important changes—you don't let yourself get distracted by things that take you off the path you want to travel the most. Here's my point: If you're living with resentments, let them go. You're only hurting yourself, and like a patient with tunnel vision, your peripheral view is restricted—you're missing everything there is to see and feel along life's journey. Wishing all of you a day ahead that's jam-packed with the things and people you love the most. Make a few new memories with the people most important to you. If you've been holding onto anger/resentment, let it go - you don't have to forget what started it, just forgive. You can't live the life you love if you're buried in a lot of emotional pollution...and it takes a lot of chlorine to clean up the "swamp." Go for those eleven-second therapeutic hugs I always write about with the people most special in your life. And as my Dad loved to say, "Illegitimi non carborundum" - "Don't let the bastards grind you down!" Happy Sunday or Monday if you're on the other side of the world. "You will never find time for anything. If you want time, you must make it." Charles Buxton by Skip Cohen I always try and keep it light as we head into the weekend, especially in the "slow season." Here's a thought as we hit the last weekend in February: A photographer I've known for a fairly long time asked me for some help in determining where his business needs the most attention. I was happy to give him a hand, but he never came back with what he needed me to look at in his business. When I contacted him to see what had happened a few months later, his response was, "I just haven't had the time." This is a short post today: While we can't stop time or hit a magical rewind button, we do have control of our time, but it doesn't just happen. When there's something we want to do, it's only going to happen if we MAKE the time. Lou Mitchell, in his book Positive Thinking - One Day at a Time, wrote: ... time is one of our most precious resources, yet it often feels scarce. Waiting to find time for important activities and goals is futile...Reflect on your daily routine. Are there activities you wish you had more time for? How can you adjust your schedule to make time for these priorities? What steps can you take today to start making time for what matters most? Just two points today: Take a little time and review your priorities. So often, just when we start to get a little momentum on something, we're distracted. We take our foot off the gas and slow down - like a gaper's block driving past an accident on the freeway. You can't do big things if you're distracted by little things! Unknown Second, by staying overly focused on our cell phones, we're always reachable. Put phones together with email and social media, there's no place we can hide. Too many of us take every call and never say "No," when asked for help. I'm not suggesting you say "No" all the time, just prioritize better. You can't be everything to everybody, but you can find balance. You can be present for the things that matter most. The concept of always being reachable makes us present nowhere. Peter Arvai Wishing everybody a terrific weekend with time for the things that are most important in your life!
by Skip Cohen
I know I've shared this group shot before, but after twenty years of writing Throwback Thursday posts, I'm running out of old photographs! However, the fun of throwbacks is always in the memories they bring back more than the actual photographs. This one brings out some special backstories from PhotoEast, that year called Viscomm.
And there you have it—the true fun of Throwback Thursday, a walk down Memory Lane. It's the perfect way to remember why we love this industry the way we do—it's about photographs and their ability to stop time, giving us memories that become tangible reminders of the past. If you haven't taken a few minutes yet to look through some old files and photographs, what are you waiting for? Happy Throwback Thursday! by Skip Cohen I restarted this series to give you ideas on how to build a stronger business, no matter what the challenges were! Most of you are right-brain creative types with too little focus on growing your business. Many of you don't think of yourselves as small business owners. Even if you're working for another studio, imaging is a career choice that lends itself to freelance assignments, and you're ALWAYS building your brand. Even through it's the slow season, it's not who you know but who knows you! Here's a list to help you keep your name out there in the spotlight. Your goal is to create top-of-mind awareness, so anytime somebody is thinking about photography, your name comes up first.
Too many of you think there's nothing you can do to build your brand until business picks back up into spring seasonality. Relationship building is your most vital marketing tool, so set up a time every week to build your foundation of awareness beyond your skill set. Author Scott Stratten says it best with the tagline of his book Unmarketing. Stop Marketing. Start Engaging!
by Skip Cohen I woke up about 5:30 this morning and stayed in bed trying to think about what I wanted to write about today. I came up empty! When I'm stuck for a topic I grab one of a half dozen daily motivational books to see what a few of my favorite writers chose for thoughts over the last few days. Lou Mitchell in his book on positive thinking hit the perfect thought a few days ago - "Act Without Delay." He started with a quote for February 13th: "Change your life today. Don't gamble on the future. Act now, without delay." Simone de Beauvoir He went on to write: The future is uncertain, and waiting for the perfect time can lead to missed opportunities. By acting now, we can make meaningful changes that steer our lives in the desired direction. Procrastination only delays our growth and fulfillment. Embracing action without delay empowers us to create the life we envision. Are you living the life your younger self envisioned? And if not, is it for the better, or have you procrastinated and rationalized your way down the wrong path? It's so easy to get off-track from our goals, but at the same time, there's nothing wrong with changing direction. None of us can turn back the clock and undo decisions we regret, but we can make sure we don't waste time headed in directions that don't make our hearts smile. If we've learned nothing else in the last couple of years, thanks to Mother Nature and politics, the future is constantly changing. The only consistency is that there is no consistency. So, if there's something you've always wanted to do...like Nike's old slogan...just do it! When I was a kid, my Dad traveled a lot locally. On one of his trips, he found an abandoned rusted-out 1939 Ford in an old barn in Saegertown, PA. He came home excited and told me he wanted to find the owner, buy it, and the two of us would rebuild it together. That vision of his makes me laugh since neither of us knew anything about cars. This was all pre-Internet, so it's not like he'd been watching a YouTube video about rebuilding old classics. It took him six years to get us back to that barn in Saegertown together. When we got there, the barn was gone, and a new apartment building was in its place. He sighed and said, "I was afraid we waited too long." And there's my point - we all have too many mañanas in our life. The future doesn't come with guarantees other than always arriving on time! If there's something you've always wanted to do, then what are you waiting for? Wishing everybody a day ahead filled with new adventures in whatever direction your heart is telling you to go. Stop waiting for everything to be perfect to make that change you've always wanted. You'll always have a few regrets, but the key is to learn from each one and change direction whenever it makes sense. Along the way, remember those people you love and trust the most - the ones who get those eleven-second therapeutic hugs I always write about. They're in your life for a reason - let them help you achieve your dreams. Happy Sunday...or Monday on the other side of the world. If you wait for all the lights to turn green, you'll never get started on your journey.
Zig Ziglar by Skip Cohen My mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother all died of Alzheimer's. Two days ago, my good friend, Kristen Jensen, who also lost her mother to the disease, shared a post about Alzheimer's on Facebook. I'm unsure where the post started, but it was one of those please-share-chain-letter-type posts. While I normally hate stuff like this, it was so spot-on and accurate to what we experienced with my mother. I started this post with the plan to share it yesterday, Throwback Thursday. I decided to combine a few of my favorite throwback images of my Mom with my own version of a public service message, which is below. Well, I posted the piece on my FB page and was surprised at the response from so many people. So, I decided to hold off and wrap up the week with an additional focus on the Alzheimer's aspect, and a mini-tribute to Mom, including a hand-colored portrait from around 1940. ![]() Robin Williams took his own life because he was diagnosed with Lewy Body Dementia. Bruce Willis learned that his illness is Frontotemporal dementia and Lew Body Dementia (FTD). One of the hardest things to process is the slow change in the one you love. Becoming a completely different person. Everything changes. Just so you know...it's called the long goodbye. Rapidly shrinking brain is how doctors described it. As the patient's brain slowly dies, they change physically and eventually forget who their loved ones are and become less themselves. Patients can eventually become bedridden, unable to move and unable to eat or drink or talk to their loved ones. There will be people who will scroll by this message because Dementia, Alzheimer's or Parkinson's has not touched them. They may not know what it's like to have a loved one who has fought or is fighting a battle. In an effort to raise awareness of this cruel disease, I would like to see at least 5 of my friends put this on their timeline. I'll settle for at least one. If you're one of those people who believe Alzheimer's and Dementia only happen to the "other guys:" According to the Alzheimer's Association, as of 2023, an estimated 6.7 million Americans are living with Alzheimer's disease. This number is expected to increase to 13.8 million by 2060. (source: Google) But if the disease is already touching your life, here are some ideas that helped us through the "storms" a lot.
There's no getting around the pain of dealing with losing a loved one to Alzheimer's, but there is so much help available. Don't forget to talk to your doctor about the newest drugs available. There's some incredible progress made with certain types of Dementia, especially Alzheimer's. Most important of all...remember you're NOT alone! Everything changed the day he figured out there was exactly enough time for the important things in his life. The StoryPeople by Skip Cohen I know I shared the quote above a few years ago, but when something inspires us, our perspective can change as time goes by. Sheila and I have a collection of StoryPeople art, and this morning, I read the quote above. This post is for those of you "Chicken Littles" who spend your life worrying about time. You can't slow it down and you can't stop it, but if you get it in the right perspective, the speed that time flies by becomes an asset. I admit, being an old fart helps in the way I look at time today, and here's my point... I've learned to appreciate my goals and not be restricted by the time needed to accomplish what's important in my life. Over the years, I wasted so much time worrying about what I wanted to accomplish on any given day. I wasted time picking low-hanging fruit, not because it was easy to pick, but because my loftier goals might use up too much time. Life became about the quantity of things I got done, not always the quality! This is a short post this morning. Stop worrying about time and just focus on the task at hand. I've learned that everything always works out for the better, and while some goals and tasks are more difficult than others, once you accept that you really can have it all, everything falls into place. Happy Tuesday! PS And if you're looking for some great inspiration, thoughts on romance or simply a different perspective on life, check out the StoryPeople's website. (Please note: I do NOT work for them. They are not a client - I just love the way they seem to know exactly what's in my head and how to write it down.)
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