 “We can complain because roses have thorns, or rejoice because thorns have roses." Alphonse Karr  by Skip Cohen It's my first Reflections post of the new year, and after watching the news last night, I knew exactly what I wanted to right about...the art of optimism! For most of my life, I've been one of those "the glass is half full" kind of guys, but I couldn't wait to close the door on 2024. It was a tough year, and I welcomed '25 with open arms. But with the horrific attack in New Orleans, the continued "Luigi" saga, the CDC warning on flu season ramping up, and an arctic cold front with fifty-seven million people in its path, optimism is getting hard to come by! Just five days into the new year, the world has gone upside down. Chicken Little's proclamation that the sky was falling seems to be jam-packed with foresight and wisdom instead of a kid's folk tale. So, I went off in search of all the things that continue to make me smile and realized it's just a matter of selective focus. It's time to flip the switch to focus confirmation in our brains, just like we have on our cameras and phones. Thanksgiving is ten months away, but I'm not waiting to think about everything I'm grateful for. It all starts with the furnace working this morning as Florida hits temperatures in the forties. Next comes our health; despite both of us creaking for ten minutes when we get up in the morning, we're feeling pretty damn good for old farts. We laugh a lot, even though there are a few rounds of tears here and there. And then there are the two pups, who, even though they're five years old, will always be puppies - they make us laugh and remind us every day of the importance of unconditional love. Here's my point, and it's all explained in my opening quote: Sure, roses have thorns, but how cool is it that thorns have roses? No matter what I might want to complain about, somebody out there has it a whole lot worse. I'm a work in progress, but the art of optimism is all tied to developing an Alfred E. Neuman philosophy about life and then staying true to his "What, me worry?" persona. Yesterday is gone, and we've no control over tomorrow, but we do have today right now! So, I'm throwing Chicken Little out on his ass and giving Alfred E. Neuman power of attorney! Wishing everybody a great day filled with peace, laughter and smiles that are more infectious than anything the CDC warns about. Make it a day to focus on things and people you love. You've got no control over how screwed up the world is, but you do have control over your little piece of life - don't waste it worrying about things you can't control. And ALWAYS go for those eleven-second therapeutic hugs I've been writing about for the last ten years! Happy Sunday...or Monday if you're on the other side of the world. "Your attitude, not your aptitude, will determine your altitude!"
Zig Ziglar
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